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Wandering Thoughts

Had life time experience on this day with these kids :) Halo good people. I am back to the normal life of the university and its my final year but really enjoying every bit of it. I had a lot of time to write but didn’t have any specified topic to write about. Today I really wanted to write something, so here I am with yet another topic to talk about! Gonna be sharing some random stuff happening around and what my heart and mind perceive from that. I have been thinking for so long that how some people just make random wishes and instantly get what they wanted, on the other hand some people keep making duas and keep on waiting and waiting but they get nothing. So recently I came across SURAH YOUSAF in QURAN, It answered me both ambiguities. Hazrat Yousaf was separated from his father when he was in his early teens, His father made dua for 40 years and got blind because of continuous crying. But after 40 years of waiting when he finally got to meet his son how

THE LOSS AND AFTERMATH OF LOSS

ABBA AND AMMA <3 Hello lovely people! In this my birthday month ideally you guys should send me gifts but its the other way around,  before starting a new year of my life  i have a gift for you all from my side.  So   yeah, this  is  something very  personal, a very  special thing that I am going to share today here on my blog . You might have seen two-faced people, I am one of them! Surprised? Well, it’ll be clear by the end of the blog, so let's quickly jump into the story behind this two-faced girl. It’s going to be really long, so bear with it people. I am Ayesha Raza going to tell you about ASHI. See there is something fishy in the name too:D Well, guys as the youngest child of her family Ashi got immense love from both the maternal and the paternal side. She was stubborn, full of life and energetic child, and in any gathering, she was special for that gathering. From grade 1 she started making best friends. Life went on from having fun fights over  remote

LET'S BE KIND :)

Let's start today :) Today, I am going to dive into some deep thoughts which we normally let go off but I experienced it personally and seen people going through. I usually write  about things what I feel or what I learned or experienced from my own life.   So today I am going to talk on about priorities. With this emerging world of social media fame and two-faced people, don’t you guys think we have lost ourselves? We lost our strengths . We lost relationships. we lost realness. It feels so sad that even person sitting beside you doesn’t know what a pain you are going through!!! In all this mess and involvement in only our own selves, we have lost empathy and sympathy. We say others so boldly that “BE STRONG ”. But let me tell you one thing these words cannot heal the wounds of an other person . Instead your five minutes of listening and saying “I AM WITH YOU” would mean the world to an other person . These words literally give strength . Every

Social Media

Social media addicts :D Hello readers. Congratulations on NAYA PAKISTAN :) But is it only Imran Khan’s duty to make changes? Change begins with your own self. So let's join hands and support IK to establish NAYA PAKISTAN <3 . Today I want to write about social media. We have a lot of social media platforms. And we spent hours and hours on them. But let me ask you a question. Do you get satisfied with browsing on them all day? Can you imagine your life without them? If the answer is yes then it’s great, but if it's no then it’s a serious problem. My answer is NO. And what I am going to write today will be relatable to all those who had NO answer.   Social media is an illusion in which we are stuck so badly. We have no idea how much time we are wasting and hardly getting any profit from it. It had made us so addicted that even for some hours we can't be away from it. Our productive mind is stuck. Allah has blessed us with a very creative and productive min

University Life :)

Together since beginning forever <3 Hello friends. Enjoy Karlo: D In my circle most of the people are living university life so let’s talk about it? Okay, I had experience of medical college life too and had spent 5 months there in the hostel it was horrible except friends. Luckily I always found good friends wherever I went ALHAMDULILAH and hoping same for future :) So starting off with the very 1st day at the university I was very confused about people studies and university life. I am not a person who can easily embrace changes so yeah, it was difficult for me. Finally, I found partner an old neighbor, friend and now one of my best friend the sunshine of our squad RABIA <3   and gradually 10 more people joined together and made unbreakable bond and here I am in final year writing about university life and missing all those idiots. Initially we listened too much about breakups: D and seen those breakups of very strong groups But ALHAMDULILLAH we 11 always stood toget

SELF LOVE

Halo people, I hope my all readers are fine, happy and enjoying summer vacations. Today I am going to write about a very important topic about which we don’t think much and ignore that constantly. Today's topic is SELF LOVE.   Why am I choosing this? Because I lack this ability to love myself too, and I am working on it so I really wanted to share how to care about your own self and love yourself. Lezz do this together!! Below I will mention some ground rules to follow for those who want to achieve this goal. 1.        Listen to yourself:   The biggest mistake we do nowadays is that we rarely listen to ourselves and listen to others very carefully that what they think of us and what is their judgment. That is wrong my friends. This is YOUR life. It's totally fine to discuss or seek the advice of those who are more experienced or your loved ones but don’t stop your mind think and listen to what your heart says. Don’t ignore yourself at all. 2.        It’s o

Relationships.

Relationships are very precious, but unfortunately, they are mainly taken for granted. In my today's blog will share my thoughts on those relations which I experienced very closely and also about my feelings for those. We should let out our feelings for our loved ones. Do you agree? So let's start with the purest, beautiful, selfless, and my very favorite relationship. And that is for sure of parents. This relationship is very close to my heart. I experienced it very little due to death of my both parents in my that age when I needed them most and also after that age still I feel that the biggest loophole in my life is the absence of my parents.   If I talk about separately for MAA and ABBU both have their own importance. MAA starts caring you from the day when you take the first breath inside her womb. She is the most beautiful I say the creation of GOD that cannot be ever replaced by any other relationship.   Personally, my mom was a kind of midway between strict and f

MENTAL AWARENESS.

On my previous blog post I talked about two things, firstly about depression and secondly "log kya kahein gai" (what will people say about this). Today I will only be focusing on depression and to be a more specific mental illness. In layman language whenever we tell someone that I am mental will they don't take a second and put the label "tum Pagal ho" (you've gone mad).   That's so sad and harsh reality of our society and which makes me sadder that very well educated people are not aware of it and if they are, that themselves fear about talking mental illness. What exactly is mental illness? Tension? NO. Mental illness is the very complete fatal disease that if untreated properly can also lead to death. And in 2018 we are witnessing many deaths. It doesn't matter that are suicides. What matters is that they were because of the reason that people were so ill and there as no one to understand them, listened them cure them and heal those wo

Let's talk :)

DEPRESSION? DEPRESSION. The word depression is taken so lightly that whenever someone says I might have depression we consider "koe tension hai khatam hojaye gi"(it's an ordinary tension). But NO. Depression is something as real as cancer. What if we can't see it as we see cancer patients going through physical pain. It is not a small matter that  it should be overlooked. In my point of view we don't talk about our thoughts which we fear about and that turns out into depression. Agree? We think too much of " log kya kahain gai?"(what will people say about this?) I mean f**k them. For how long we will care about them and not ourselves? Do whatever you feel right. It's not that you should do everything blindly but at least listen to your heart, ALLAH has made it for some purpose so fulfill that purpose. Use your brain for your decisions not others. AND please stop saying people "jitna ziyada socho gai utna masla kharab hoga" Its not in pa