Relationships are very precious, but
unfortunately, they are mainly taken for granted. In my today's blog will share
my thoughts on those relations which I experienced very closely and also about
my feelings for those. We should let out our feelings for our loved ones. Do
you agree?
So let's start with the purest, beautiful,
selfless, and my very favorite relationship. And that is for sure of parents.
This relationship is very close to my heart. I experienced it very little due
to death of my both parents in my that age when I needed them most and also
after that age still I feel that the biggest loophole in my life is the absence
of my parents. If I talk about
separately for MAA and ABBU both have their own importance. MAA starts caring
you from the day when you take the first breath inside her womb. She is the
most beautiful I say the creation of GOD that cannot be ever replaced by any
other relationship. Personally, my mom
was a kind of midway between strict and friendly mom but I remember that it had
scared the hell out of me whenever I did anything wrong. Amma always used to
teach us with little actions of her own. MAA is the first teacher for a child
from the day one. It is very beautiful that she can be your friend, adviser,
counselor and much more, more appropriately if you have maa and not having good
other relationships not to worry you have everyone. Talking about ABBU. I had never ever seen a
man more humble, soft, kindhearted, and down towards earth than my father and
literally I mean it. I was 16 years old when he let and I NEVER EVER heard
saying hin bad words for anyone. Alhamdulillah.
Father is something a feeling of protection you have when you have him
in life. My father hardly scolded me once in a while until his death as I was
the youngest child so yeah there were so many perks. , Lol. Unfortunately today I see many people or more
specifically youth of my age take this beautiful relationship with parents for
granted. I think you cannot know the importance of something until its lost.
But guys here I am telling you that
every relationship has a replacement but these two have no replacement. today I
wish I can have only one chance to meet them and hug them and talk to them but
that not in my hand so yeah please care for, your parents. And say salaam from my side :)
Now moving on to siblings. Brother and
sister. I believe ALLAH gave us the free opportunity and authority to show
every emotion with them :P I have three sisters and two brothers as I told I am
the youngest one so I see every diversity of emotions for me. Talking about
sisters. They are such a blessing that I can't even describe in words, they
cover you up in every bad situation and laugh with you in every silly
situation. My three sisters are very precious to me because I can count on them
on different matters and each of them has some speciality which helps me a lot.
So I feel a little bit sorry for that who don’t have sisters. After sisters brothers come first of all I
will say it doesn't matter at all that brother is younger than you or elder he
is going to behave as elder always. My
two brothers are east and west. Younger is very cool and calm and always trying to
find logic, pros, and cons of things. And from all of us, he is Masha ALLAH the
most blessed one. I don’t know maybe some wishes of him are still unfulfilled
but he is my inspiration. I never fight more with anyone than him in my
siblings. My eldest brother, my protector, guardian, defender keeper and much
more. I have not enough vocabulary, to describe his love for me but bhai I want
to tell you that I love you so much. He is very aggressive, although I fear
him a lot but I know he loves me more than anything. Siblings are a blessing of
ALLAH thank HIM and after parents, no
one can take care of you better than them. I have one brother from another
mother HASSAN BHAI. Who taught me things which I could never learn alone I had
never seen a guy more selfless then him. I am so proud to call you as my
brother and mentor. May ALLAH bless you <3
My most favorite part to write about FRIENDS,
I have a lot of friends. But I will write this for some special friends. My
best friend who is always fighting with me. We never talk like normal human
beings. is someone get chance to read our chats they would think that two enemies are talking but that's how it is. But I know I am your favorite
and by saying this I am turning on another argument :D HERE I am telling you I
hate you my but still I will be always there whenever you want. My school friends to whom I had shared an era
of my life, my ups my down, every phase of my life countless laughter and they
are still with me from class 1. You can imagine what bond was sharing. Love
you, doctors, because all of them are doctors :D How can I forget my university
squad of 11 most beautiful and talented girls. When we made our squad we had
listened to a lot of stories of a breakup between friends but guess what we are
in final year and our friendship is growing every day. In my squad almost every
talent you will found so feel free to take any help from us :D FRIENDS are very
precious part of life you feel totally incomplete about them. They are the ones
making your life beautiful. But unfortunately, people don’t regard this pure
relationship and turn their back on friends and become the worst enemy. Care
for your friends and make memories that you will cherish for always :)
There is another the relationship I experienced
is cousins, I will say that can be the replacement of siblings if you don’t
have one. Other than that cousins are partners blessed by GOD. I have most
amazing cousins and I love them. But I have seen people ruining lives of their
cousins in jealousy.
Lastly, I would say that there is own beauty
in every relationship we just have to explore positive aspect and focus on
that. I heard a lot about phuphos and
khalas issues but still, let's make this world a place of love and peace and
leave behind the negativity. So yeah I
guess it's getting very very long I should stop here. Don’t forget to spread
love, happiness, and positivity :) <3
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